Dear Lia:

It's such a wonderful idea to gather inspirational words on the eve of your Bat Mitzvah. I am, of course, honored that you asked me to share some thoughts with you. I suppose that as a Rabbi and your Teacher my words will be a bit different than those solicited from others. But, I speak with the support of Rabbis who lived and taught Judaism, forming our people's faith 2000 years ago, and who have even sacrificed their lives in order to see young women like yourself become B'not Mitzvah.

As you gain more years and maturity, you will, I believe, see what a privilege it is to be a Jew. You are fortunate to have acquired, because of your parents, an incredible treasury of Jewish knowledge and wisdom to begin your adult journey as a Jew. 

The world has often been a strange place: you mentioned the Shoah, and there have been countless more instances of evil and savagery. Yes, you're right - our people and faith have managed to keep a bright light through it all and remained forever courageous in trying to realize the day when good would triumph over evil.

Stay true to who you are - when in college, when you meet your bashert in this life, and when you start your career. Jewish values are needed more than ever. 

Always question everything, both in the secular as well as in the Jewish world. Our religion can always withstand the most intensive scrutiny of study. Be contemporary and at the same time reverent for the Jewish past. 

May your heart forever be one with the Almighty. Know that in all your accomplishments - moral, spiritual, material - that it is God who gives you the strength to accomplish what you are able to do. Always dream new dreams for our people and for all humankind.

You are a most special young woman and already a long way toward the realization of a fulfilled and loving Jewish life.

Mazal Tov on your upcoming Bat Mitzvah - I think I'll be there!!! Shalom,

Rabbi Stuart Altshuler

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